75 Creative Ways to Ask Your Crush to the Homecoming Dance (2024)

Homecoming is one of the most special nights of the entire school year. While prom and graduation are reserved for upperclassmen, homecoming is the one school bash that everyone can attend. That means you can pull up by yourself, grab your besties, or bring a date. If you plan on bringing a +1, then you may be thinking about planning an epic homecoming proposal.

The key to giving your date a homecoming proposal to remember is knowing what they like the most. Is your crush always trying out TikTok recipes? Maybe your SO has one series they consistently binge. While a simple "Will you go to homecoming with me" text totally works, including your date's interest in your homecoming proposal idea will take it to the next level and set the stage for a truly memorable night. Get ready to become the talk of homecoming season after you read ahead for the best tips and tricks for the best way to ask your crush to homecoming.

Movie and TV-Themed HoCo Proposal

Grab your favorite snacks and get cozy underneath your favorite blanket — we've got the best homecoming proposal ideas for all you cinephiles out there. We love the idea of creating a video proposal based on their fave film or TV show, but if you don't have time to pull clips together, these motion picture puns will win you an Oscar (or at least get you a HoCo date). Bonus points if you invite them over for a movie marathon after they say yes.

Message Ideas:

  • It would be scary if you said no to homecoming with me — (It, 2017)
  • In a galaxy far, far away, I see you and me dancing the night away. HoCo? — (Star Wars)
  • I know I'm not Harry Potter, but can I be your "Chosen One" at homecoming? — (Harry Potter)
  • Together, we can rule the galaxy homecoming dance floor. — (Star Wars)
  • Fulfil my hopes and dreams. Give me the "Green Light" to bring you to homecoming. — (Great Gatsby, 2013)
  • Will you fly Up to homecoming with me — (Up, 2009)
  • I'm seeking a homecoming date and I think you're a keeper! Homecoming? — (Harry Potter)
  • Every Beast needs their Beauty. Homecoming? — (Beauty and the Beast, 2017)
  • Before we're stuck in the Upside Down, homecoming? — (Stranger Things)
  • It would be Marvl-ous if you'd go to homecoming with me — (Marvel Cinematic Universe)
  • This might be Sully, but would you go to HoCo with me? (Monster's Inc., 2001)
  • I Loki think people would Marvel at us together. HoCo? — (Loki, 2021)
  • It would be Strange if you weren't my date to HoCo. — (Stranger Things)
  • Do you Wanda complete my Vision for homecoming? — (WandaVision, 2021)
  • Will you be my Spider-Man and swing into HoCo with me? — (Spider-Man: No Way Home, 2021)
  • Do you Moana go to homecoming with me? — (Moana, 2016)
  • I may not be the diamond of the season, but I can be your diamond on the dancefloor. Homecoming? — (Bridgerton)
  • Searching the galaxy for a HoCo date, but Yoda Obi-Wan I want. — (Star Wars)
  • On a scale from one to 11, homecoming? — (Stranger Things)
  • Now that I've buttered you up, will you go to homecoming with me?

Food Themed Homecoming Proposal

HoCo proposing with food is one of the most popular ways to pop the question. Everyone likes food, and it's easy to find out what your potential date snacks on most by paying attention in the cafeteria and during study sessions. Present them with munchies in a box and let them open the container that contains a sweet, handwritten message on the inside.

Message Ideas:

  • I would "fry" if you didn't go to homecoming with me. — (French fries)
  • Please donut say no. Homecoming? — (Donuts)
  • I would be soda-lighted if you'd go to homecoming with me! — (Soda)
  • This is kind of cheesy, but will you go to homecoming with me? — (Pizza)
  • Will you roll with me to homecoming? — (Sushi)
  • I'm gonna "wing it" and ask you to homecoming! — (Chicken wings)
  • What's the PASTA-bility that you'd go to homecoming with me? — (Pasta)
  • I'd be one lucky nugget if you'd go with me to HoCo. — (Chicken nuggets)
  • Let's TACO 'bout HoCo. — (Tacos)
  • I'd go bananas if you said yes to homecoming. — (Bananas)
  • I "cannoli" ask one person — so homecoming? — (Cannolis)
  • I'd be berry happy if you'd go to HoCo with me! (Chocolate-covered strawberries)
  • I "lava" you a lot. Let me "cake" you to HoCo? — (Chocolate lava cake)
  • I would be fortunate if you'd go to homecoming with me. — (Fortune cookies)
  • I'm a sucker for you — homecoming? — (Lollipops)
  • I may not be smooth(ie), but will you go to HoCo with me? — (Smoothies)

Sports-Themed Homecoming Proposal

Does your crush practically live on a court or field and knows everyone at the local gym? Chances are a sport-themed HoCo proposal would be an absolute touchdown with them. Using a poster board to pop the question is a classic option, but if you're looking for something more unique, try writing out your message on their sport's ball of choice. The gear makes for an adorable momento of the occasion.

Message Ideas:

  • I might strike out asking, but will you go to homecoming with me? — (Baseball/Softball)
  • Can I steal you for a date to homecoming? — (Baseball/Softball)
  • Let me pitch you an idea — how about we go to homecoming together? — (Baseball/Softball)
  • You've caught my attention, so let's "swing" to "home"—coming together. — (Baseball/Softball)
  • You strike me as the batter I want to take to homecoming. — (Baseball/Softball)
  • Will you round the bases to homecoming with me? — (Baseball/Softball)
  • Wanna go the extra yard and tackle homecoming with me? — (Football)
  • You intercepted my heart — will you go to homecoming with me? — (Football)
  • I think we would have a chil—LAX time if we went to HoCo together. — (Lacrosse)
  • On your mark, get set, and go to homecoming with me? — (Track/Cross Country)
  • Trade your running sneakers for dancing shoes at homecoming with me. — (Track/Cross Country)
  • Scoring a date with you would be "pucking" awesome. Homecoming? — (Field Hockey/Ice Hockey)
  • I would be so XCited if you would run to homecoming with me! — (Cross Country)
  • Will you kick it with me at HoCo? — (Soccer)
  • It's my goal to go with you to homecoming. — (Soccer)
  • No need to play the field — score a goal with me at homecoming. — (Soccer)
  • You don't need goggles to see that I want to go to homecoming with you. Wanna take the plunge with me? — (Swimming)
  • I don't know what to say, so I'll "Freestyle" — want to go to homecoming with me? — (Swimming)
  • Forget fly, back, breast, and free — will you go to homecoming with me? — (Swimming)
  • When you're done shooting 3's, will you go to homecoming with me? — (Basketball)
  • You'd be a real MVP if you'd go to homecoming with me.
  • I'd rather not pass on a shot to score you. Homecoming?
  • Let's have a BALL at homecoming.
  • My biggest goal is to get you to go to HoCo with me. How about giving it a shot?

Animal Themed Homecoming Proposals

No live animals are required for these ideas, but a set of puppy dog eyes certainly does help secure a HoCo date. Get you or your crush's pet involved in the action by securing a message onto their collar (gently, ofc). If your animal wouldn't be thrilled with the idea, use a stuffed animal or simply prop a sign next to them.

Message Ideas:

  • It would be Golden if you were my HoCo date. — (Golden Retriever)
  • Will you goat to homecoming with me? — (Goat)
  • Homecoming would be ruff without you! — (Dog)
  • MOO—ve it on the homecoming dance floor with me? — (Cow)
  • Would you be a deer and go to HoCo with me? — (Deer)
  • I'd be a lucky duck if you'd go to homecoming with me! — (Duck)
  • Homecoming would be un-BEAR-able without you. — (Bear)
  • It would "Giraffe" me crazy if you said yes to homecoming. — (Giraffe)
  • Will you make my day and waddle to prom with me? (Penguin)
  • It would be purrr-ty cool if you went to homecoming with me. — (Cat)
  • Homecoming? Check "Yay" or "Neigh." — (Horse)
  • I need your seal of approval — will you go to homecoming with me? — (Seal)
  • Whale have a sea-riously good time at homecoming together. — (Whale)
  • If my puppy dog eyes don't work, maybe theirs will. HoCo? — (Dog)
  • How could you paw-ssibly say no to homecoming?

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      75 Creative Ways to Ask Your Crush to the Homecoming Dance (2024)

      FAQs

      How do you ask your crush to homecoming? ›

      Message Ideas:
      1. I might strike out asking, but will you go to homecoming with me? ...
      2. Can I steal you for a date to homecoming? ...
      3. Let me pitch you an idea — how about we go to homecoming together? ...
      4. You've caught my attention, so let's "swing" to "home"—coming together. ...
      5. You strike me as the batter I want to take to homecoming.
      Sep 21, 2022

      How do I ask a girl to dance at homecoming? ›

      Say something like “Would you like to go to the dance with me?” or “I was hoping we could go to the dance together. What do you think?”

      Is it okay for a girl to ask a guy to HoCo? ›

      Is it stupid for a girl to ask a guy to homecoming? No, it's not stupid at all! In fact, many guys would be very attracted to the idea of a girl making the first move.

      How to ask a girl to HoCo without a poster? ›

      For example, say something like "I think you're really awesome and fun, and I was wondering if you'd like to come to homecoming with me." Remember to smile and look her in the eyes. This will hold her attention and show her that you are genuinely interested in her. Be prepared, but don't follow a script.

      Do you need a date for homecoming? ›

      Dates can ruin the whole point of Homecoming. Homecoming is all about dancing with the people who make you feel comfortable to dance with and sometimes people are only comfortable doing that with their closest friends. Having a date can also be awkward before the actual dance.

      How do you flirt and dance? ›

      How to Flirt when Dancing
      1. Make eye contact.
      2. Smile at the person.
      3. Close the distance when you ask them to dance.
      4. Mirror the person's moves.
      5. Dance closely without touching.
      6. Stroke your face or neck to get their attention.
      7. Run your fingers through your hair.
      8. Pull them closer to you.

      How do you ask a girl to dance creative? ›

      PHOTO COLLAGE – Photograph yourself with each word asking them to the dance (one picture is “Will”, another is “You”, “Go” etc.) in all of your dates favorite places. Then put it all together in a photo collage or hide it around their room.

      How to ask a random girl to dance? ›

      Strike up a conversation with them, and when the next song starts, ask. If you're too shy to talk first, just walk over to them as a song is ending, and ask right as the next song is starting (this also works if they are leaving the dance floor, to politely intercept them for the next dance).

      Who should I ask to homecoming? ›

      Personally, I would recommend you ask someone that you are friends (or more) with—or at least someone who's not a total stranger. Homecoming can be an opportunity for a new relationship to bloom. If you're on the more reserved side, it may be a good idea to indirectly ask before making big arrangements.

      How do you ask a shy girl to homecoming? ›

      Message Ideas:
      1. I might strike out asking, but will you go to homecoming with me? ...
      2. Can I steal you for a date to homecoming? ...
      3. Let me pitch you an idea — how about we go to homecoming together? ...
      4. You've caught my attention, so let's "swing" to "home"—coming together. ...
      5. You strike me as the batter I want to take to homecoming.
      May 15, 2023

      How to get a girl at a dance? ›

      The Approach
      1. Timing. The best time to ask a girl to dance is just before the end of a song so that you are ready to take the floor once the next song is starting. ...
      2. Eye Contact. ...
      3. Introduce Yourself (optional) ...
      4. Pay Her a Compliment (also optional) ...
      5. Ask Her to Dance (not optional)

      What does Hoco date mean? ›

      HOCO is an acronym used for homecoming, as in a high-school homecoming dance.

      What do girls give guys on Hoco? ›

      What is A Boutonniere? This is the flowers the girls are going to be giving to the boys. These flowers are not really going to be of the same brilliant colors the girls may be getting, but will be more of the neutral colors. These are going to be found in the buttonhole of the guys jackets.

      Can everyone go to Hoco? ›

      At most schools, prom is open only to seniors and sometimes juniors, but homecoming is for all — including the underclassmen, meaning you can start enjoying the festivities as a freshman.

      Should I ask a guy out to homecoming? ›

      Simply put, don't be afraid to ask someone to the homecoming dance. There's no pressure to go with someone, and absolutely nothing wrong with going alone. But, if you do have someone in mind, don't allow any fears or self-doubt to get the better of you.

      Should I ask my crush to prom? ›

      Prom is a memorable time in a person's life. Take a chance and enjoy it with the person that will make it the most special. Taking a chance and asking your crush to prom will only help you in the long run. It is a lesson on how risks can pay off, and when they don't, life goes on.

      How to get a guy to ask you to a dance? ›

      Follows: Nine Tips to Get Leads to Ask You To Dance
      1. Dress vintage. ...
      2. Wear the right shoes. ...
      3. Have Fun. ...
      4. Take lessons and get good. ...
      5. Show up early. ...
      6. Stand near the dance floor with that “I-wish-someone-would-ask-me-look” ...
      7. Ask leaders to dance. ...
      8. Go to popular venues when not-so-popular bands are playing.
      Apr 9, 2023

      How do I get him to ask me to prom? ›

      Asking a Guy You Like

      Bring up a conversation about prom, then see if he's interested in going at all. If he's going, ask him whether he already has someone. Tell him that you also want to go but have no date yet if he doesn't. At this point, you want to wait and see if he'll ask you.

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